After attending the Sunday mass last weekend, we went to Gables Care Center in Hopedale Ohio to visit my father-in-law. It was our first visit since he transferred there few weeks ago as we did not know about it. The last info that we knew was that, he was coming back to the old place where he was in after he was brought to the hospital but when we visited there, we were informed that he no longer stayed at the said facility.
Anyway, the place is 30 minutes away from our place but we were excited to see him. The kids misses their Pap and it was a needed bond they need with their grandpa. Gables Care Center is a well-maintained facility for old folks. You can tell that they really care for all their clients there unlike the first place that Dad lived into. I am glad that he was transferred here. They seemed to really take care of everyone that comes to this place.
After getting the information about Dad, we found him setting by the grand piano at the other side of the building. He was talking to my brother-in-law Rick who was also visiting that day.
While my husband was talking to his brother, the kids entertained their grandpa by playing some tunes on the piano.
It is so nice that they have piano there. It gives visitors the chance to play some music for their love ones. One of the couples visiting one of the residents, thanked my kids for playing as their Mom really enjoyed it.
If we could have known that there is a piano there, the kids could have brought their [piano books. They only have a few memorized so that's what they played. They do plan to bring their books on our next visit. My daughter said that if Papa will stay there for long that she would really love to learn how to play violin and entertained Dad with it too. Having said that, I am looking at the best yamaha violin at MF.com selection and the cheapest price I can find is $699, oh boy!
You can hear one of the ladies in the audience was encouraging EJ who is very shy. She was kind of giving EJ a hard time, joking with him so he would play but she was very nice.
It is a relief knowing that Dad is well taken care of at this new place. I think that Dad was was not treated well at the first place that's why he was retaliating to the employees. When he was taken out from that place, he had bruises on his arms.
My husband does not really express what he feels sometimes but as his wife, I know deep inside that it hurts him seeing Dad this way. Her could no longer remember who we qwere unless we introduce ourselves everytime.
The kids played some board games after they played the piano.I was listening to Dad talking to John and he told him that his wife (who is deceased for over a decade) was looking for John. "Your Mom was wondering why you haven't come here yet", he told my husband.
I told my husband that maybe, his Mom visited his Dad there and was talking to him.
We noticed that Dad was getting tired so we got ready to leave. We took our photos together before heading out.
Before we left, one of the nurses there showed us a picture of Dad and a woman attending a prom. I guess they have an activity like a prom at the said facility every once in a while. It was really nice to see how Dad is enjoying his stay there and that the nurses there really do care. I wish I could have asked her to send me thepicture, Dad really looked nice with his date! It makes us not to worry about him too much.
24 travelers' comments:
Thank you for sharing this post. I am one of the owners of Gables Care Center and am so pleased to hear about your experience. It is a tribute the staff and leadership at Gables Care Center and we really appreciate all they do for residents and families.
Sarah Manning
Aw, but your father in-law sis looks healthy pa naman. This is a beautiful place... your children looks so lovely and how nice that they we're able to entertain their grand father through playing piano.
If your FIL Sis is being taken care here at the facility I work, definitely will visit him and talk to him. Your Fil is very lucky that you and your family visited him. Some of the residents at work, I did not noticed any visitors at all. I have to make sure that I visited them and talk to them for few minutes. If I am assigned cleaning at their room, I will cheer them up. My new Bff at work is 95 yeas old Ms. R. I love her so very much.
It's a good thing that your father-in-law is in a better facility now. Hoping the best for all of you.
What a nice place for your FIL to stay at, it feels like so comfortable and cozy and of course at home, the look on his face is immeasurable.
Having a parent or a relative move into a nursing home is heartbreaking for me. My only consolation is that I know they are being cared for and that there are medical professionals available in the event of an emergency. Gables Care Center looks like a lovely place for your FIL and he seems to be well settled and happy.
This looks like a nice place for your FIL to be in because the place looks very clean and that they will take caare of him really well.
That sounds like a great care facility for the elderly. Glad you were able to go over there and spend some time with him.
I'm so glad your father-in-law is in a great care center and has such a loving family to support him and make sure he's properly cared for. I'm sure he enjoyed hearing his grandkids play the piano for him. So sweet!
I'm happy to hear that this care center is better than the last place your father-in-law was in. Its so important to find a care center that actually takes care and treats its residents with respect.
It's nice to hear that he is in a good place and he is comfortable. I'm glad your children are able to visit too and keep him company!
Your father has such a nice place. I'm sure he's glad with your visit.
It has to be so hard on your husband having his dad not remember, but at least he is able to spend time with him still. It's so nice having a piano there. I'm sure the residents love it.
I'm so glad that your father-in-law has a great place to live. It is always sad to see when our parents are not what they used to be. I am happy that you're able to visit him.
Gables looks like a great place. I love how clean and homey it is. It looks like a great place for anyone who needs to live in a place like that.
We have my in-laws in a wonderful care center. We visit every weekend. They are happy and getting the professional care they need.
I'm glad that your father in law was transferred somewhere that the people really care about him. It sounds like he is well taken care of.
It looks like your father in law is definitely being well taken care of. Which is great to hear, when there are so many centers that you hear the opposite. Thank you for taking us on this journey with you!
What a beautiful place! Knowing that your loved ones are in a safe and well staffed center is a great peace of mind.
Gables Care Center does indeed sound a lot better than the first place. It is so hard not to worry about our loved ones. The staff and the place seem really great. If he is happy you know he is being cared for by the staff. I love that the kids are able to spend time with their grandfather. It really is important I believe. Thanks for sharing.
Gables Care Center looks like a great place. It is so hard to find open space int the care centers where I live.
It's great the kids are still getting to see their grandpa. Thankfully, we don't have any one in a nursing home right now. But, when I was a teen my great aunt had to be moved from our home to one when my mom could no longer provide all that she needed. My mom was amazing and there multiple times a week for her.
So glad to see that your father in law is in good care. Glad that your kids were able to spend time with their grandpa
Aww this is wonderful that the kids get to see their grandfather. Gables Care Center looks like a great place.
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