If you have returned to work after having children, you’ll know how
difficult it can be balancing work with your home life. If you are currently
considering returning to work, it could be one of the hardest decisions you
will ever make. Either way, know that it can be done. These fantastic tips
should help you cope with, and perhaps even enjoy being, a working mom.
Find a Flexible Career
Ask for Help
Routine
Organization
Look After Yourself
Find a Flexible Career
If you already have a career that you love, speak to either your manager
or HR department about the possibilities of working flexibly. This could
include working some days from home, working part time, or working some shorter
days, making the hours up elsewhere. You might be pleasantly surprised to find
your needs can be accommodated. If you are looking for a career change,
consider some of these more flexible workplaces:
·
Schools. There are many careers within a school, all of which offer
great hours and term time working. Some of the best, aside from teaching, are
receptionist, kitchen assistant, school nurse or counselor at school. If counseling
is something you could be interested in, see Wake Forest University for some great counseling
programs online.
·
Healthcare practices. Working as a doctor, nurse or admin assistant within
a healthcare practice is a much more flexible alternative to some other places
of work within the healthcare sector. Practices often attract those with
families for this reason.
·
Retail. Working in retail might not pay the most, but with many retail
staff working evenings and weekends around school, there are a lot of
opportunities for those wanting to work during school hours.
·
Freelancing. If you have any skills, like writing or design, you could
use them to make money as a freelancer from home.
Ask for Help
This might mean asking your partner to pick the kids up some days, or
asking a family member to babysit so you can get a break. Whatever it is, ask.
Moms don’t have to do everything, and needing help does not mean you’ve failed.
Routine
Get the kids into a great routine. This can include everything from
dinner and bedtimes, to when they do their homework and play games. Try to
stick to a childcare routine if you need it. Structure and routine are
important to your child’s development, and can also make your life a lot
easier.
Organization
Keep a diary, and write everything down. Your work shifts, where the
kids need to be, any appointments or meetings. Even consider writing down meals
and housework that needs doing if it makes things easier.
Look After Yourself
Make sure you eat a healthy diet, drink 8glasses of water a day, sleep enough and get some exercise. That
might sound a lot, but it will keep your energy levels up and help you avoid
getting slowed down by illness.
Whatever your reasons for choosing to return to work, don’t feel guilty
about them. As long as you feel you are doing what’s right for you and your
family, don’t let society tell you any different. Try finding fun ways to
involve your children, take them to visit your workplace if you can, or play
games that include your job. Family and work don’t necessarily need to be
completely separate.
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